Yep alway's the victim, my X had her 15 year old text me with some misinformed crap that she was sprouting, at first I wanted to retaliate but defered it ( as usual ) till I calmed a little, It all bull from alienation so I just let it go. I still wrote down the text though, jut in case.
I also had the guy she had the affair with send an abusive text after I flashed him the bird, challenging me to come back and fight him. Funny thing was he timed it so we were an hour apart I just cracked up, this dude still can't look me in the eye, it's all just dry wind and gusto because they think they are protecting a victim ( as if )

As if your going to pay attension to something of the like as an anonymouse text message.

You just keep your eye on the goal and things will flow.

All the best D4E

thanks will do. well a guy wanting a fight when you were 1hr away? what a strange person.

Yeah the goal is me not getting effected by this crap and moving on, not caring. I think what she does is look tough around me and dishes the crap out but when she is on the phone to family or who-ever she cries, and she is a reaal cry person. I feel bad for the women who need DVO for real, cause she is just abusing the system.

yeah my mum says "text mesages are dangerous and be careful at this stage she will use anything agaisnt me.

anyway bed time.

Arghhhh yeah but that was early on when the X had the audasity to turn up with the pleb at change over, ya reckon I wasn't seeing red at the time, like I said though I did insight it by giving him the finger and if I was only a couple of minuets down the track I may well have turned back, So I should be grateful, the funny thing was the text went on to describe me as a coward, after that I just couldn't take it serious.

I'm still gratefull that it was a mistake I didn't make, because it was just one of many attempted set ups that failed.

I use to do the worst thing possible at one stage there, she'd be spitting venom over something totally irrelevant that I didn't know about and wanting to make me her whipping post for troubles in her home some 300k's away and I'd end up laughing at her, do not do this, it is bad, no good comes from it, but it was just so funny and it was at a time when she refused to let me talk to my daughter until she finished blasting me, she must have popped a blood vesel or something. It was a shit thing for her to do because my daughter was three at the time and the rest of who was there was listening in, but I couldn't help but laugh.

I think it was because at that point I started to realise I was less at her mercy and it felt gooooooooood