I don't know about you but from what I see today it is just so easy for women to just pick up and leave, society actually nearly invites and encourages it.

I am becoming more and more to realise that my ex orchestrated our seperation nearly right from the start. She has a gazilion female friends who are also seperated so they just urge her on saying just have a kid and seperate, come out and party with the girls!

I mean there is just so much support out there for single mums. They don't ever have to work again and just go the ex for as much money as they can, I mean why would you stay with your male partner? Love? honesty? For the good of your children?

I am not sure what they thinking.

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I think we'd be rich if there were 50cents for everytime a male scratched their head and asked a female what the *&$% were you thinking?

Legally, it shouldn't be as easy, but they certainly see it as their perogative to up and take the kids whever they feel the urge... Mine Picked another State, and possibly one of the furthest recesses of civilisation. Fortunately the law finally caught up with her and dragged her kicking and screaming back to Qld.

There are certainly a few canniving mutations in the species and they have the genetic instinct to spew poison in every direction when cornered.

The state of things for men aint great at the minute, but we have occasional wins. With the dedication of the DIDs and similar groups things will eventually come full circle.